Get Rid of Junk, Not Memories

Clutter and time go hand in hand. Why? Because touching things, moving things, storing things, thinking about your stuff – it all takes time. Get rid of it and you won’t have o deal with it again. But what if there’s an emotional attachment? I totally understand – I’m a bit of a hoarder myself,… Continue reading Get Rid of Junk, Not Memories

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Let go of the past

Norman Lear: When it’s done, it’s f__ing done. Move on. Don’t spend too much time focusing on the mistakes of the past. And don’t have regrets. If you regret something, it means that you’re focusing on and living in the past. Instead, learn from your mistakes so that you don’t repeat them.

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Less is More

You’ve heard this phrase a million times, but it really is true. Haircut Mowing and edging Expensive clothing stores – spread out Minimalist approach doesn’t like poor because the space is not full of stuff, it actually looks more elegant. Look at the way houses are staged on HGTV shows – they’re not filled with… Continue reading Less is More

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Reclaim Your Space

What if you were gone for a few days and returned to find squatters in your house? Would you just let them stay there? Of course not! You’d boot them out right away. In the same way, you need to reclaim your space and reclaim your time. The same way you organize your house is… Continue reading Reclaim Your Space

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Prime Real Estate

My cousin asked me a question once that has actually turned into a bit of a controversial topic: why don’t they tear down the ghetto? He went on to say that the lower-income areas in many cities are actually in a great location – near downtown and close to popular attractions. In other words, they… Continue reading Prime Real Estate

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Schedule time for exercise

If you don’t, you’re unlikely to find the time. But even when it is scheduled, it’s difficult to do. Why? Because it hurts. It takes effort. It may require you to get up early and get out in the elements and feel bad for a while all in order to feel better later. Here’s a… Continue reading Schedule time for exercise

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Have a bedtime

Isn’t it weird that we set our alarm to wake up but not to go to sleep? Isn’t sleep important? In fact, if we get enough sleep, we may not need to set our alarm. Also, it’ll help your sleep cycle if you reduce caffeine usage, drink water, etc. Know what else will help you… Continue reading Have a bedtime

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FOMO

Fear of Missing Out. It’s one of the reasons we stare at our phone so much. And it’s why we can’t say no when something is happening that we’re invited to, even if we should be doing something else. But here’s the thing: if you let fear of missing out determine what you do from… Continue reading FOMO

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Screen Time

What’s your “screen time”? Many of us now get reports every Sunday morning telling us how much time we spent staring at our phone the previous week. And many of us cringe when we see the report because it becomes clear just how much time we’re wasting on social media, playing games, etc. You don’t… Continue reading Screen Time

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Make the Problem Go Away

One of the main ideas of “The One Thing” is that we can determine what our top priority should be by asking ourselves this question: what’s the one thing I can do right now such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary? It’s a great way to approach your to-do list.… Continue reading Make the Problem Go Away

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Timing is everything

We hear in real estate that it’s about location, location, location. In most areas of life, it’s about timing, timing, timing.

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*** THE APPLICATION (APPLIED PRINCIPLES) ***

All of this stuff sounds great in theory, but none of it does any good until you try to implement it. And once you do, you’ll find some techniques that work, some that don’t, and some that need to be modified to fit your specific situation.

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Other Tools

Though you should try your best to capture all to-do items on a single list, that doesn’t mean you can’t use other tools from time to time. For instance, anytime my wife says “remind me to do X at Y time,” I immediately, in front of her, say “Alexa, remind me to do X at… Continue reading Other Tools

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Habits and Routines

Another way to put your mind on auto-pilot is through the development of Habits. Habits allow us to do routine and sometimes mundane tasks without even thinking about them.

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This or something better

Just because something is on the calendar does not mean it’s set in stone. Consider some of the items on your calendar to be “penciled in” – that’s literally where the phrase comes from. They can always be replaced if a better opportunity or more important task arises. But it’s better to have something planned… Continue reading This or something better

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A Place for Everything

If everything has a place, you don’t have to hunt for it. What do you lose most often? Your keys? Your glasses? Your checkbook? Well, then you should have a place for those things. My wife cleans the house—thoroughly—before the exterminator comes. If we have bugs, she doesn’t want him to think it’s because we’re… Continue reading A Place for Everything

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Dream About It

Here’s a tip. If you’re having trouble sleeping because you can’t stop thinking about a problem that needs to be solved, and if using your “external hard drive” doesn’t do the trick, give yourself permission to think about the problem. Instead of trying to relax and clear your mind, you can spend a few minutes… Continue reading Dream About It

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Prioritizing

My wife sometimes accuses me of procrastinating when I’m doing something at the last minute, but I will explain to her that that was actually the time I had scheduled for the project. It wasn’t poor planning – it was the actual plan. Prior to that time, I had other priorities, and it would have… Continue reading Prioritizing

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Procrastination

Here’s another way to use procrastination to your advantage: even if a task is important, sometimes the reason we put it off is because it will require a certain amount of energy or a certain amount of uninterrupted time so we can really focus on the task at hand. If you don’t currently have the… Continue reading Procrastination

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What do you most dread?

When reviewing your to-do list, one task will stick out from the rest. It’s the one you lease want to do. Do it first. This is your subconscious mind’s way of helping you prioritize. It wouldn’t bother you if it wasn’t important. Who knew procrastination could actually be a tool? When we start to procrastinate,… Continue reading What do you most dread?

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When should you start?

I love New Year’s. It’s the ultimate new beginning, a time for a fresh start, a time to set new goals and get started right away. To me, it makes sense to start something big on a big day. Your birthday is also a good day to make new goals or launch new projects. Clearly,… Continue reading When should you start?

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Deadlines

Give yourself deadlines. Don’t use these words, but write something similar: Deadlines are designed to help you inch closer to completing your book by giving yourself a writing habit. It also encourages you to work every day hitting both short-term and long-term goals.

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One bite at a time

It’s hard to organize everything. But it’s not hard to organize one thing. So pick one thing, do it, and then keep it organized. Maybe grab a drawer, bring it in the living room, and do it while you’re watching TV. My wife’s Grandma always did something while watching TV – sewing buttons on shirts,… Continue reading One bite at a time

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Find Windows of Time

My wife has insomnia, which basically means that I have insomnia. So I’m using that time to write this book. Much of it was written between 10pm and midnight while she’s staring at her phone and Jimmy Kimmel plays in the background. If you’re starting a side hustle, you need to find an hour a… Continue reading Find Windows of Time

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Move the Ball

Another football reference, but one we can all understand. Even if you cannot complete a task, you can make progress. A three-yard run isn’t much, but it’s 3% of a football field, 5% of the way to the endzone if you’re starting at the 20, and 30% of the way to a first down.

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Two-Minute Drill

Once you’ve put a to-do list together and added time estimates to it, you should have a good idea of what can be completed quickly and what will take a little—or a lot—more time. This can be helpful because it will allow you to take advantage of small windows of time. If you’ve got five… Continue reading Two-Minute Drill

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View problems as opportunities

One other important point about problems. Sometimes, it’s good that they happened. Many people have an “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” mentality. But when something does break, we have an opportunity not only to fix it but to actually make it better than it was before. That begs the question: Is “ain’t broke,… Continue reading View problems as opportunities

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